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Excerpts from Chapter 7–Two to Tango

The New You

(KJV) Song of Solomon (Song of Songs) 3:5, “I charge you O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or by the does of the field, Do not stir up or awaken love until it pleases.” 

The title of this chapter from the book Finding Your Soul Mate God’s Way, insinuates thoughts of lurid, sexual escapades that lurk in our memories and wild erotic dreams that may haunt our past, present and future.  Most of us have these memories of one night stands, friends with benefits, fillers, openers, notches on bed posts that have only served to lower the self esteem of men and women alike. Are you ready for the New You? Ready for the soul mate that God will send to you?

In earlier chapters, I mentioned that 50 years ago women were the keepers of morality and with the role reversal that is going on today between men and women in our current society, why should anyone  uphold boundaries of morality?  Let’s start with this Acid Test: If you are in an out-of-marriage sexual relationship; either before, during or after a sexual interlude, pray and ask God for his blessing of this relationship. If you have trouble praying this prayer and really doubt getting a blessing, you have your answer.

It’s never too late to say No to casual sex. The verse above says do not awaken love until it pleases…This is God’s way of saying: “I will give you a great sex life within marriage alone.” Sex out of marriage will never be blessed by God. Yep, in this anything goes society we live in, you can become a new person simply by saying no to out of marriage sex and depend on God to send you your soul mate. Sex within marriage carries no guilt, no shame, no diseases, no regrets but adds such a wonderful touch of sex between a man and his wife…Love fulfilled!

Old Wives Tale–Don’t Believe It

Ladies, how many times have you heard a man, during a passionate embrace, say: “Make love with me. Let me show you how much I love you!”  For some reason, women think that a man shows his love through sex. Not so, an old wives tale. A man shows his lust through sex with anyone other than his wife. After the act, ladies, like it or not, you’ve become another notch on his bed post.

Here’s another one for you, ladies. Did your mother ever tell you: “If a man is getting the milk for free, why would he want to buy the cow?”  Do you get the drift? These are words of wisdom from your Mom.  A man shows his true love for a woman by being faithful to her, by little notes of affection, by trusting and respecting her above all others.  If a man begins guiding you into sex before marriage, move on. He lusts for you, he doesn’t love you.

(LB) Matthew 5:28-(Jesus speaking) “But I say unto you: Anyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart…”



Author: Ron Mumford  April 14, 2014  2:09 pm


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